Home Exchange – Our Experience

Have you thought about exchanging your house during your holiday? Let me tell you more about this concept and our experience.

The first time I came across the concept of exchanging houses was when watching The Holiday film (2006) with Cameron Diaz playing a woman exchanging her house in the USA with another woman in UK. At the time I thought that the idea was great, but I thought well it is a film and I was a student with no house. So no more thoughts on that. Until last year (nearly 20 years after this film), when suddenly several people I know mentioned to me that concept. I was quite intrigued and after discussing the idea with a very sceptical Matt I decided to register our house on Home Exchange website. (There are several more local websites but I went with the most famous one).

How does Home exchange work?

As you will have guess the idea is to exchange your house with someone else. When you register your house on the website (entering number of rooms, number of beds, locations, etc), it will attribute a number of GuestPoints per night for your house (if you want it is the value of your house per night if someone was paying and you had your house as a holiday let). Then you have two main choices:

  • Reciprocal exchange: You exchange your house with someone else house. They come to yours while you go to theirs. You can say that no GuestPoints (GP) will be used when doing reciprocal exchange which means that it doesn’t matter how much your house and their house cost per night. Or you can not select that option and difference in the house cost will have to be paid. For example House A is 250 GP/ night and House B is 200 GP/night. In the first case families A and B exchange houses and no GP are exchanged. In second case, as House A cost more than House B, family B would have to give to family A 50 GP per night they are staying in House A.
  • GuestPoints exchange: You go to someone else house against GP. The other family do not come to your house. They can either go to someone else house using their GP or go on holiday without doing an exchange. For example Family A wants to exchange with Family B but Family B are not interested instead they decide to take the GP and go to Family C or to go in a hotel.

People can exchange their primary or secondary house. It is even possible to put only a bedroom (a bit like Airbnb).

Once register, the website allows you to search a house by country, city name. It is also possible to add several filters such as dog-friendly, child-friendly, parking etc. Once you have found a house you like you can send a message to the house owner and see if they would like to exchange for the dates you want. Once all the details have been agreed, both families need to accept the exchange via the website. After the exchange, you will have the opportunity to leave a review on the other family profile.

How much does it cost?

Registration to the website is free. That will allow you to complete your personal profile, your house profile, search for others houses, send messages to other house owners, and save your favourite houses. In order to finalise an exchange a membership is required. This cost £180/year. It allows you to do as many exchanges as you want during the year. No restrictions in number of exchanges or number of nights exchanged. The membership also allow you to access their insurance in case anything happens in your house.

Advantages and Disadvantages of Home Exchange

We have only done one exchange so far so I have a limited experience with Home Exchange but I thought that I will list what I think are the advantages and disadvantages so far.

Advantages:

  • Cheap accommodation;
  • Comfort of a house;
  • No need to pack towels, bed linen or other small items. Everything is furnished;
  • Local knowledge and restaurant recommendation;
  • Can avoid a robbery especially for long holiday as someone is staying in your house;
  • Website insurance;
  • In some case can even exchange cars.

Disadvantages:

  • Accept that someone will be sleeping in your bed or that you stay at someone else place;
  • Maybe works better for city exchange than countryside as there are more houses near big cities;
  • Might not be able to pick an exact location;
  • Need to contact several people to have one exchange;
  • Less choice when travelling with a dog;
  • Need to clean your house before going on holiday and their house at the end of the holiday;
  • Not so much for weekend trip but more for at least one week holiday.

Our experience Home Exchanging

Even though I registered end of summer 2023, we only did our first exchange in April 2024. This is mainly because we didn’t have any holiday left. So I mainly started to focus on finding exchanges since this January. We knew that we had to organise a trip to London to renew Matt’s french passport before June so I thought let’s try home exchange and make a week holiday of it. The website is really easy to use, and I found several houses that could be a great option. We had several mail exchanges via the website with families living in London city center but at the end we thought that with a dog, a baby and no car a week will be too long. Especially as we have been several times to London and have already done the main parks, museums. So instead we opted for an exchange with a family near Windsor. The idea was that we could go by car, visit around that area and Matt could go by himself to the French Embassy when needed. To be honest it worked very well. After discussing via the website with Ana and her family, we agreed an exchange date and duration. I prepared a welcome pack for them to know everything about our house and they did the same. Finally we agreed where we will leave the house’s keys of each house and off we went. I wasn’t stressed at all but Matt was a bit apprehensive. Every day during our time there he was asking if they had sent us a message and if everything was fine. I would say that he enjoyed the holiday but was happy to come home to check. Of course, our house was perfectly fine and they had taken care of it as we did with their. The next day Matt recognised that it was a great idea that he had stressed for nothing and he was ready to do more exchange. Let’s see where we go next time.

What do you think? Do you want to try home exchange? Have you tried before?

Find all the information about home exchange on their website. If you wish to register let me know and I will send you a referral code.

25 thoughts on “Home Exchange – Our Experience

    1. I totally understand it is not for everyone. The cleaning doesn’t bother me. Also I think that is why doing an exchange for a weekend is not so popular as it is a lot for just two nights. P

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  1. I see the attraction of home exchanges but I would be too worried about our stuff. Like most North Americans, we have a lot of stuff. I think that stuff expands or multiplies to accommodate the amount of space available to fill. Not everything is valuable, but still there’s the question of will they take care of the place like we do. Even the floors would be a worry. Canadians take off their shoes before entering a house but Americans do not. Did you lock a room that contains private papers and other personal things?

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    1. Yes Matt was worried but I wasn’t as we are minimalist and don’t have a lot in our house. All our floors are ceramic tiles or wood so very easy to clean. Most of our furnitures are wood as well so very easy to remove a stain on if it happens. The only fragile thing was the TV. We didn’t lock a room. I guess we trusted them as they trusted us.

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  2. We have a couple of good friends who use this system a lot, including extended visits to Australia. I think I might be inclined to do it if I had a second home, but I’m not sure that I’d be happy with the invasion of personal space here. It’s not that we have anything valuable, but it’s ours. And I’d be cleaning like a maniac! But it’s a great idea if you can make it work for you.

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    1. I think it works well for long holidays/ retired people.
      I do understand that feeling of having people in your house without you being there. It doesn’t bother me maybe it is because I moved so many times that my house is just a place to live with objects that can be replaced.

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  3. It sounds a good idea in theory, however I am sure I could never get my home clean enough, I would be worried that anyone staying would find those stray dog and cat hairs that are always creating tumbleweeds through my house. Saying that ,I do let friends and family stay at my caravan sometimes.

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  4. Le concept est génial mais pas pour moi je pense. J’aurais du mal à me sentir à l’aise chez quelqu’un d’autre, j’aurais plus l’impression de déranger et de ne pas être à ma place et si je mettais ma maison à disposition, j’aurais trop peur que quelque chose disparaisse (oui je suis un peu parano 🥲).

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    1. Ce n’est pas quelque chose que j’ai ressenti car j’ai pris plus cette expérience comme si on restait chez des amis. Vu que nous avons beaucoup échangé avant l’échange je n’avais pas forcément cette impression d’être chez des étrangers.
      Oui après il faut faire confiance. Après je me dit que si les gens veulent continuer à faire ça ils vont faire attention à la maison/ne rien voler car on laisse des commentaires à la fin. Je suis une optimiste donc je me dit que les gens qui font ce genre de chose ne sont pas la pour détruire.

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  5. Home exchange looked interesting in the movie, but in the real world I would be anxious. Both about the home you go to, and your own. Perhaps if I had a second flat free I wouldn’t mind. But then I guess that’s what airbnb is.

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  6. interesting, but I don’t think we’d do it. I’d be too worried about things getting damaged. We let our nephew, who we thought was very responsible, stay in our home for 3 weeks while we were away on our last trip. We came home to a broken chair, scratches on the hardwood and crazily enough a rearranged spice drawer!! But thanks for the info! Maggie

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  7. It sounds tempting. I want to go to Northumberland next summer for a few days and having checked the usual websites I can see it would cost me close to £600 for accommodation alone. With bad weather almost guaranteed! I had a tenant for a year when I was working down South and another for a month, also when I was travelling. No major issues. If you ever want to come to Chester, let me know – my job means I can be away for 2 weeks a few times a year and I wouldn’t mind having someone here if only to water the plants 🙂

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    1. I found accommodation so expensive everywhere and sometimes it isn’t even great just the basics. We rented a static caravan last year when we visited Northumberland (Parkdean on the south coast of Northumberland). It was good price for the 3 of us + dog, nothing fancy though.
      I like home exchanges because we can have the comfort of the house and people usually give you advice on where to eat/ what to visit. Definitely worth considering if you don’t mind someone staying at yours.
      We might be interested in spending a bank holiday weekend in Chester 😉.
      If you want to register on the website I can send you a referral code.

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  8. You were brave to do this! I don’t think I could be on board with others being in my private space like this. And keeping valuables safe could be an issue, too. On another note, I like how you write in French and English. This article was a great way for me to practice my French!

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    1. It is all based on Trust. Yes people are in your home but you are as well in theirs so we kind of all have the same mindset.
      Thank you for your feedback it is nice to hear that you found it useful to have both languages.

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